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Wedding Dress Shopping: The Ultimate Guide to Planning Your Wedding Dress Shopping Experience

Picking out your wedding dress is a naturally fun part of your wedding planning experience. But finding the right dress takes time – and that means planning a wedding dress shopping day!

From searching for the perfect dress, to knowing what bridal shops to visit, to easy tips you may not know, you’ll need to know how to plan your wedding dress shopping in advance.

Here’s how to get from dreaming to saying yes to the dress no matter your style or budget.

middle aged woman holding up a wedding dress

Step One: Set a Budget for your Wedding Dress

Creating a budget for your wedding is an important first step when you begin your wedding planning. Wedding dress shopping is no different.

The average wedding dress cost varies depending on if you’re purchasing a ready to wear wedding gown or a designer wedding gown. For example, the average bride spends $1,600 on her wedding dress. But that could range anywhere from a $500 ML Monique Lhuillier line off the rack dress to a $4,000 Vera Wang dress.

Rest assured, you can find beautiful wedding dresses at every price point. The cost of a wedding dress depends on how the dress is manufactured, the type of fabric used, and the label.

Knowing your wedding dress budget in advance will help know where to shop for your wedding gown, and will assist in narrowing down your numerous choices. No need to fall in love with that $7,000 Lazaro gown that you’ll only be able to afford by cannibalizing other parts of your wedding budget.

Keep in mind, you’ll need to include your alterations, undergarments, veil, jewelry, and shoes in your budget.

For additional helpful information on budgeting for your wedding dress, check out our Austin Wedding Budget Calculator or San Antonio Wedding Budget Calculator.

Step Two: Gather Wedding Dress Inspiration

After establishing your wedding dress budget comes the fun part – deciding on what wedding gown style is for you.

Whether you grab a stack of bridal magazines to tear out photos or prefer starting a Pinterest board (or both!), the first step is bridal dress inspiration.

When researching wedding dress styles, consider your overall wedding theme and setting. Preferably, you’ll have your wedding venue chosen. If not, at least narrow down venue type such as a ranch venue as opposed to a hotel ballroom.

You’ll also want to consider if you’re having an outdoor wedding ceremony and/or reception. Will you be walking through grass or turf? Do you need your wedding dress to keep you warm or cool? Your venue location will determine a lot of your wedding dress needs.

Next, consider your personal style.

Many brides will feel the most comfortable in the style they traditionally wear. Brides who opt for modern, clean lines in their wardrobe will love sleek, satin wedding dresses or a contemporary two piece wedding dress. If you love puff sleeves and prairie dresses, a boho chic lace gown just may be your perfect choice.

That being said, some brides prefer their wedding dress to be a special departure from their typical look and style. If a dramatic ball gown wedding dress is speaking to you, even if you’re normally in jeans and a T-Shirt, go for it.

Start saving up all the wedding dress photos you love and note the designers that catch your eye. If you do find a wedding dress of interest that is outside your budget, save the photo for your wedding dress consultant. She just may be able to find something similar.

The next step is to understand wedding dress terminology to help communicate your interests to your dress consultant.

wedding dress maker measuring ribbon

Step Three: Understand Wedding Dress Terminology

You want to start by understanding the lingo of wedding dress styles. This includes the different wedding gown silhouettes such as mermaid or A-line. It also means understanding gown length options like tea length and ballgown.

In addition to the wedding dress skirt length and style, you’ll have options for your bodice and your sleeves length.

It’s much easier to tell your wedding dress consultant you like sheath-style wedding dresses with sweetheart necklines than to try and describe your perfect wedding gown in your own words.

Once you understand some of the basic wedding dress style terms, you’re ready to book your wedding dress appointment.

Check out our article on Wedding Dress Terminology for Austin and Wedding Dress Terminology for San Antonio to learn more.

Step Four: Make your Wedding Dress Appointment

Now, it’s time to start making your wedding dress appointments.

Book your wedding dress appointment early to ensure you get the day and time you prefer. Considering you’ll want to order your wedding dress 9 months prior to your wedding, this means your dress appointments need to be set 12 – 10 months prior to your wedding.

Ideally at this point you’ll have chosen your wedding venue. This will help you and your wedding dress consultant know things such as indoor and outdoor considerations, weather and venue style.

Appointments are crucial for a solid wedding dress shopping experience. If available, find out who your dress consultant will be prior to arriving. Have a thank you card and a tip ready to go for your appointment. Generally, you’ll tip your wedding dress consultant 10% – 20% of your total cost.

For a quieter experience or if you have a large wedding party, consider booking your appointment on a weekday. If you are booking multiple appointments at different wedding dress shops, never book more than 3 appointments in one day.

Keep in mind, most wedding dress appointments last an hour and a half. Wedding dress overwhelm is a thing, don’t let it get to you.

Lastly, if you imagine popping champagne when you’ve found your dress (or while shopping), call ahead. Some bridal shops will have beverage options on hand, while others don’t allow certain beverages within the store.

wedding dresses in a wedding dress shop

Step Five: Choose Your Wedding Dress Shopping Entourage Wisely

You may be picturing your wedding dress shopping day with your girlfriends and a fun afternoon of Ooh’s, Aah’s and champagne. And it should be.

But when it comes to planning your wedding day shopping, there is too much of a good thing when it comes to who attends with you. Your wedding party, mother, groom’s mother – the list of potential people who come with you to go wedding dress shopping grows easily.

Too many people can mean too many opinions.

If your bridesmaid’s number is pushing 10 or more, you may want to cut down the number of people you invite to the shopping day. And really, you don’t need their opinions, you need their excitement over your choice. A group of five close friends and your mother may be all you need.

Gently let anyone in your wedding party know in advance you’re keeping this part of the planning small. If you want people to feel included, perhaps plan a post-shopping happy hour where you show them pictures of your dress options.

See our article on How To Choose Your Wedding Party for more helpful information.

Step Six: Dress Appropriately for your Wedding Dress Shopping

To ensure your wedding dress shopping experience goes as planned, you’ll want to have a few items on hand for your dress appointment.

First, you’ll want to bring heels in several different heights. You likely won’t already have your wedding shoes selected since you’ll purchase them after you purchase your wedding dress. So grab a variety of heels from your closet from kitten heels and above.

Next, you’ll want to ensure you bring the correct undergarments. Bring or wear a nude thong, even if you aren’t looking for a form-fitting gown. You’ll also want to bring a low-cut bra and a strapless bra.

Thinking of getting a fake tan before your wedding dress appointment? We say NO. Even though you may plan on getting a fake tan for your wedding, it’s too easy for a fake tan to transfer onto delicate wedding gown fabrics. Be courteous to the shop and go without.

In that same mindset, wear minimal makeup for your wedding dress shopping. You don’t want foundation or eyeshadow to smudge on a neckline. Your dress shopping will be best with a fresh face and minimal daytime makeup.

bride in robe holding wedding dress

Step Seven: Trust your Wedding Dress Consultant

We recommend having wedding gown photos ready and a decent idea of the wedding dress style you’re looking for prior to your dress appointment. Still, keep an open mind. And trust your wedding dress consultant.

Your dress consultant will defer to your style and fit preferences. However, they are also adept at knowing what wedding dresses work on different body shapes and types. There may be a neckline you didn’t think you could pull off, or a shade of white you aren’t sure about. Listen to the consultant. A dress you may hate on the hanger may end up being your perfect gown.

Some brides are lucky enough to try on their perfect dress on the first try. Others, it takes weeks of multiple appointments. If your first attempts don’t go well, keep an open mind and expand your options.

In the end, just know it is your choice. Your opinion is the only one that truly matters.

Step Eight: Order your Wedding Dress

Finally, it’s time to order your wedding dress!

As we mentioned, your process of buying a wedding dress starts at least 9 months prior to your wedding date. Remember, it can easily take up to 6 months for your wedding dress to arrive. If you have concerns about if your wedding dress will arrive on time, talk with your wedding dress consultant. They’ll be able to inform you which designers are currently experiencing longer ship times than others. And that may impact your final decision.

Lastly, once you have indeed found your perfect wedding dress – stop looking! Don’t even look or try on a wedding dress for fun. A second round of looking at wedding dresses will only lead to second guessing yourself.

If you planned your wedding dress shopping experience correctly, you can rest easy that you found the right dress.

Find your perfect wedding dress at the best Austin Wedding Dress Shops and San Antonio Wedding Dress Shops.